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Love More

We are entering the month of love – a month when red and pink abound, heart-shaped goodies show up in bakery windows, flower sales spike, and restaurants dim the lights a little bit more.  I’m not into the Hallmark-y, dozen-roses-on-the-table manifestation of love, but I am into the idea of manifesting love in lots of different ways, not just in February, but every day.  Outward expressions of love come in countless shapes and sizes…so, kicking February off right, here are a few examples I’d like to share: Read more

Playground Workouts: Not Just for Kids

photo by bill ohl, via flickr creative commons

photo by bill ohl, via flickr creative commons

I recently observed a bunch of kids playing on the monkey bars – jockeying for position, swinging their legs around, doing pull-ups without even realizing it, and flipping over and onto the ground (this used to be called a “penny drop” when I was a kid).  It’s fascinating to see what kids are naturally able to do before things like self-judgment and fear of public failure and cars and desks come into the picture.  They make downward dog and penny drops and freeze tag look so effortless that I often find myself inspired to find more playfulness in my own workouts….to return to the mindset of a kid playing instead of an adult “exercising.” Read more

Family Values

my family values living an active life.

my family values living an active life.

I have a new-ish friend named Chantal.  I liked her right away when I met her for lots of reasons – she’s genuinely and intensely curious about other people, she’s a voracious learner, she’s hilarious, and she asks really tough, big questions that make me think (for example, she recently asked me casually to distill Sean and my parenting philosophy).  But beyond all of this, she achieved total awesomeness status in my mind when I found out she made t-shirts for her husband and daughter a few years ago that said FLICE. Read more

Sunny Delight

field of rapeseed and cloudsI ran outside yesterday — in shorts, in January (still a novelty to a Midwestern transplant to California).  I left for my run feeling cranky (my 2-yr-old daughter woke up six times the night before screaming “MOMMY” at the top of her lungs) and a little bit overwhelmed (trying to catch up on a few projects that fell behind last week); but just thirty minutes later, I felt like a new person.  Endorphins were definitely a factor, but I think something even simpler had the biggest impact of all: sunshine.

I love the sun.  I love feeling its heat on my skin…seeing the starry glistening of rays hitting windows or snow or water…and being underneath a big blue sky that only exists when the sun is fully out in its glory.  It’s calming, energizing, refreshing, inspiring, and grounding – instantly connecting us little specks on the earth to something bigger and grander than we know. Sunshine does have health benefits (great source of vitamin D), but it’s tough to reap them because we need to wear sunscreen to avoid the sun’s dangerous rays (the vitamin D versus sunscreen debate continues to go on, but in general, doctors advise wearing sunscreen).  So let’s focus on the emotional benefit: The brain produces more mood boosting serotonin on sunny days.  

Yup, there is data showing that sunshine makes us feel better (and it’s free and accessible to boot).  But the scary news is, lots of people today rarely see the sun during the day.  People are in offices or factories all day long…windowless buildings in which we sometimes can’t even tell whether it’s sunny or raining cats and dogs.  We often wake up in the dark, go to work in the dark, leave work, and drive home in the dark.  Getting a dose of sunshine is a great micro life improvement we can all take on every single (sunny) day.  There are a lot of things about our lives and our health that are difficult to change or fix, this isn’t one of them.  All we need to do is take a few minutes (15-60) everyday and head outside for play and/or work…think about all of the amazing things you can do while you’re soaking up the sun:

Read the paper.

Eat lunch.

Call your mom.

Walk a mile.

Write a letter.

Meditate.

Have a meeting.

Kick a soccer ball around.

Water the garden.

Wash your windshield.

Pay someone a visit.

Hop on a pogo stick.

Or just lie in the grass.

What do you do to work time outside time into every day?  And if you’re not getting a few rays during the day, take a minute today to think about what indoor activities you might be able to take outside!

Not All Calories Are Created Equal

Source: Mother Jones

Source: Mother Jones

Coke’s anti-obesity ads caused quite a stir a few weeks ago, drawing sharp and widespread criticism that Coke isn’t taking responsibility for the role soda plays in the obesity epidemic (and in other conditions, primarily diabetes).  When the ad came out, ad veteran Alex Bogusky tweeted, “Tagline contest! Science says Coke doesn’t = happiness. So what’s the new tag? “Coke: None of this shit is our fault;”” Read more

Cleanse, Eat Clean, or Both?

photo by lollyknit, via flickr creative commons

photo by lollyknit, via flickr creative commons

A few years ago, our neighbor did a 3-week cleanse, during which he progressively eliminated certain foods, fasted for a day or two mid-way, and then slowly added foods back into his diet.  He raved about it after he finished it (like most people seem to when they complete a cleanse), saying he felt younger and fitter and more relaxed….he was a changed man. Read more

Life Advice from the Orthopedist

feetLate last summer, I started noticing some weird sensations and noises (popping, grinding, crunching) coming from my knee.  Nothing hurt, but everything felt a little bit “off.”  These symptoms would make anyone uneasy, but since I’ve had my knee reconstructed twice, I bypassed uneasiness and went directly into panic mode.  For months I avoided going to the doctor, for fear I’d be told that it was time to pack up my running shoes and jump rope, and make friends with the swimming pool for life. Read more

Love Letters

When I met my now husband we were living in different cities, so the early days of courtship weren’t exactly traditional.  Rather than movies and dinners and everyday surprises, we got to know one another through weekend visits, late night phone conversations, and yes…email (Snapchat didn’t yet exist).  Getting to know someone via email doesn’t sound very romantic, but when you think about it, the idea of a love letter has been around and revered since the beginning of written civilization. Read more

Flowers and Bubbles

zoe flowersI arrived at my son’s preschool for my volunteering shift a few weeks ago to find 18 rosy-cheeked, sweaty, and INSANELY HYPER 4-yr-olds frantically trying to assemble themselves into a circle before lunchtime.  When they were all finally seated, the teacher asked them to take a few minutes to “smell the flowers and blow the bubbles.”  Immediately, each child clasped his/her hands together as if gripping a freshly picked bouquet and proceeded to take a deep breath in through their nose (smelling the flowers) and a deep breath out through their mouth (blowing the bubbles).  Within a few minutes, the kids were calm and quiet and able to move on to lunch. Read more

Efficient Cross Training

photo by fang guo, via flickr creative commons

photo by fang guo, via flickr creative commons

Ever since having kids, I’ve optimized weekday workouts for efficiency over natural beauty, variety, and (unfortunately) even peak enjoyment.  This has all-too-often translated into getting up, bolting out the door for a run, coming home, and going directly into the shower (no stretching, no ice, no passing go, no collecting $200).  Efficient?  Yes.  Sustainable?  No. Read more

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