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Just Say Yes

Freshly back from a four-month backpacking trip through Southeast Asia, a friend stopped over last night for a catch-up.  He shared stories of treacherous flights and exotic food and sticky nights and incredible beauty and fresh faces and big dreams and sleepless nights and long sleeps — the kind of stories that evoke pangs of nostalgia for any intrepid traveler.  He had the spring in his step, the shine in his eyes, and the clarity of purpose that often accompany long periods away from the daily grind. Read more

Inconvenient Connection

The essay on the back page of yesterday’s New York Times Magazine was called “Why I Silence Your Call, Even When I’m Free.” The author tells a moving story about a moment in which she realized that she’s “coasting along on what seems like a new norm: Nobody picks up. Why should I?” Read more

Five Ingredients, Five Minutes

The criteria for tonight’s dinner: 1) super fast (10 minutes or less) – kids were ravenous, 2) super tasty – I was hungry too and felt like something civilized, 3) includes something green – self explanatory, 4) ingredients already in the fridge – see criteria #1.  And the winner was…

Fresh Pasta with Brussels Sprouts, Bacon, and Parmesan Read more

Play Fearlessly

Write “OYSTER” in the sand.  Face the San Francisco Bay and bark like a seal.  Do a handstand for five seconds.  Hold the Golden Gate Bridge in your hands.  Twerk.  Scrounge for 99 cents even.  Run 10 miles.  Kayak through the bay.  Do some trivia. “Chin” an orange.  Slam a beer.  Bike 20 miles.  Tie shoelaces in an ice bath.  Get fish from Point A to Point B.  Bowl blindfolded.  Scramble some words.  Climb a few hundred stairs.  Finish.  Eat pizza.  Sleep like a rock. Read more

Tantrum Silver Lining

A few nights ago our three-year-old was throwing a massive tantrum before bed.  It started with a vehement toothbrushing boycott, transitioned into a refusal to go anywhere near her bedroom (I gave up on the toothbrushing with barely a struggle), and culminated into a flat out, lying-on-the-floor, foot-kicking, red-in-the-face episode of screaming “I’m hungry!  I need fooooood.  I’m SO HUNGRY.  I’M SO SO SO HUNNNNNGRY!”

I didn’t reach for the fridge…I started crying.  Nearly sobbing, actually.  Read more

I Am (Not) a Writer

According to Merriam-Webster, a writer is “someone who has written something.”  Bing Dictionary offers up this definition: “somebody who can write: somebody who can write, who writes well, or who enjoys writing.” Hmmm…maybe I can call myself a writer after all, despite the doubts that surrounded me today. Read more

Falling Leaves + Mushroom Soup

Yesterday marked the official beginning of Fall, a season I experience mostly through nostalgia now that I live in California.  As a child growing up in the Midwest, I was acutely aware of Fall’s crispness.  Our family often continued living in our summer cottage well into the fall, huddling in front of a glowing red space heater as we got dressed to go to school.  We piled on wooly sweaters, raked leaves, and celebrated our progress by jumping into the piles and emerging with heads full of crimson oak leaves.  Read more

45-Minute Turnaround

I sat at a desk today for the whole afternoon.  Barely got up.  Read and typed and read and typed…things I love to do…but things I’m better doing with some interruption every 90 minutes, or at a standing desk.  So between work and picking up the kids, I squeezed in a 45-minute workout.  It meant picking up the kids a bit later and sweatier than usual, but it also meant that this happened.  Endorphins are flat out magic.

What would you add to this list?

The Things We Carry

A colleague’s father is ill and deteriorating every day.  A friend just failed her second cycle of IVF.  My son is struggling with the transition to his afterschool program.  Our neighbor’s husband works in New York all week, every week.  Our babysitter is worried about how she’ll pay for school.  A friend’s child isn’t sleeping at night.  I wake up homesick for my parents some mornings.  A friend has been suffering from puzzling headaches for months.

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Good, Not Harm

After already eating a sugar-laden yogurt and a piece of toast smeared with that totally amazing Justin’s Hazelnut Butter spread (“healthy” Nutella), my son asked if he could have a “treat” (read: sugary something).  “No love,” I replied.  “You have had enough sugar for today.  Sugar isn’t very good for your body.”  “Why isn’t it good for me?” he asked?  I then racked my brain to think about what a 5-yr-old would be able to understand. “It’s just empty calories,” doesn’t really work when someone has no concept of what a calorie is. Read more

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